Movements Against Toxicity | & Why We Need Them

I do bear this battle tag for a reason, sort of.

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Itā€™s not about shutting threads down, or anyone for that matter, itā€™s about keeping the peace, and at the very least helping people to understand where the other is coming from when discussing topics, and responding in a respectful, non-connotative way.

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Indeed. Only time will tell.


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nani ?

(explain pl0x I no understand the reference)

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Again, what youā€™re missing is that you have no authority to keep the peace. You are not in charge here. I am not in charge here. The moderators are in charge here. I suggest that positive action can be spread better by just being a decent person, rather than banding together in self-appointed morality patrols.

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I donā€™t think mob justice is a very good idea. Besides the fact that they appear to use mass flagging to exert it. I agree with Thrillho

Edit: for that matter, itā€™s nonsensical to have a billion of them. It just gets to the point of spam in order to be unique. You might as well have one positivity movement rather than thirty billion for each hero.

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I still remember posts getting false flagging treatment because they upset a specific group.

Those who should step up are those who are responsible of the forums, officially.

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Youā€™re still under the impression that I, or others like me, are trying to become our own form of moderation. No. Posts like these are just reminders to be kind to one another, and Iā€™m genuinely surprised this is difficult for others to understand. Mediation is not moderation.

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I just find it ironic that some of the people rallying behind these movements are not beacons of positivity here in the slightest, but thatā€™s just me being shady. I suppose one can always change. Hopefully they did actually change their ways.

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Again, you donā€™t have the authority to do such thing, whether you want to frame it as mediating, keeping the peace, moderating or any other euphemism that ultimately functions as a synonym for community management. I think youā€™re going to find that people are going to have a very negative reaction to interjecting in their own affairs.

My suggestion is to let it be. Use the report function if you think things are out of hand. Let the forum staff handle things.

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You are not shady, you simply mention facts a lot of people know but do not bother to mention because we know what happens.

Mains giving likes to each other as form of support and backing each other up. You know, ā€˜mob thingsā€™.

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When you quote people, it certainly helps to read what is quoted. You continue to talk in circles without any understanding of the topic of this post, under a delusion that people attempting to keep the forums positive are out policing the forums. I expect a response that is a direct copy/paste of your last response, as was the last, and see that thereā€™s not way for your to understand. I hope you get it eventually, have a good day!

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I guess I donā€™t really think the forums are particularly bad nowadays. At least not moreso than they always have been. Lord knows the mods are still around, still doing their evidently very thankless job.
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How are you trying to be a positivity movement when you produce this Iā€“

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False flagging is an issue that needs addressing in my books.

They took ā€˜dislikesā€™ away so we can have posts of every nature and opinions around without getting buried only to have it replaced with the flag button which on top of that leads to false suspensions.

Just because the said flagged posts upset specific groups. Thatā€™s a poor management to my eyes. Those who perform false flagging should be punished.

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What are you implying? I made a statement with no connotation, giving the opinion that the person I disagree with doesnā€™t understand that posts like these to not serve to police the forums with a sort of ā€œmob mentalityā€ that some others have implied. Quesitons?

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I really oughta open a writing workshop thread on tone. Your posts read as condescending. Iā€™ve noticed this throughout the forums, not just you

But to try to help Thrillho out here, they are referring to a relatively civil thread with a controversial (LGBT iirc) topic. One of these movements entered, posted ā€œIā€™ve never seen a thread this toxic. We will have to claim it in the name of this movement. Alright, this thread needs to be shut down. Movement, get your flags going; letā€™s take it downā€ over three separate posts. It wasnā€™t toxic at the time, even.

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Thank you for your service! I think itā€™s about time we get more advocates of positivity around here. I believe the main types of people who are inherently against something like this are people who have a history of starting arguments with others and spreading hate through rumors against specific groups of people. From what I have seen so far, I continue to believe that to be the case. :blush:


~Sincerely Yours xoxo,
a Lover of True, Fair, and Fun Balance.
xavvypls
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Yes. There was another user, and I apologize for not remembering his handle, that likened this to the Freikorps in Germany during the late Imperial period in the early 20th Century. These were combat veterans ā€“ often people of ill repute with short tempers and itchy trigger fingers ā€“ that took it upon themselves to ā€˜mediateā€™ disputes. It often ended badly for all involved.

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I think it has to do with an inherent power structure being established by forum users self electing to be mediators. Thereā€™s the implication that theyā€™re at a sort of higher standing than everyone else. Kind of like forum celeb threads but worse.

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I agree. We have enough people making threads that call out specific people or groups of people, and derailing topics with personal attacks and getting them closed due to it ā€œtaking a negative turnā€. I say itā€™s about time we have people maintaining morale and keeping topics lighthearted, not about bickering and supporting the ā€œus vs themā€ mentality we so often see here. Itā€™s time for a change of pace towards positivity instead of toxicity. :blush:


~Sincerely Yours xoxo,
a Lover of True, Fair, and Fun Balance.
xavvypls
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