I’m a support main player and even I find the whole “lumping everyone together as ‘selfish’” to be more than a little self-indulgent and unhelpful, at best, and often petty. The folks saying that they play this game to play the hero they want—something that is basically the main draw of a game with such character appeal—are right. That’s why they joined. Hero switching was also always a big part of the fundamental appeal of the game.
Some folks simply don’t like playing tank or healer. I get it. I stopped playing tank, myself, because I got tired of games where I got pinballed and ragdolled without any help. It wasn’t fun. And I found Orisa boring after a while. I like healing, although every so often I like to jump onto DPS and just shoot things for a while. I’m still a team player, looking to do everything I can to help my teammates, which should be part of the game whatever you “main.”
This idea that it’s inherently selfish or that these players “deserve” to suffer is wrong. Now, it may just be fact: You’re queuing for the most popular role, you will have to wait longer in a 2-2-2 environment. Yes, this is true. Unfortunately, this is inseparable from role queue. If we have one, then we’ll have the wait.
But we who main other roles ought to be a little more considerate. For one thing, other players enjoy playing a DPS role just like you or I enjoy playing healer or tank. For another, anything that causes players to wait extended periods just to get into a game—all while being heaped upon as “filthy DPS deserving of what they get” by self-righteous tank/support players—could be hazardous to this game’s long-term health. Well, even more so than the balance team.
Think about it. DPS is the most popular role. It’s what draws the majority of players in this game. If they’re forced to wait 10+ minutes to find a game that might not even last 10 minutes, all while facing self-righteous derision, what happens? They may just go find another game to play with less wait and less derision just for daring to play who they want to play in a game full of awesome characters.
Yes, I get tired of healing 4 crappy instalock DPS + 1 flanking Roadhog, too. This issue is not so black and white as to just heap “deserved” scorn upon “selfish” DPS players and call it good, though. There’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting to play DPS, or wanting another solution to long queue times. Long queue times combined with snobbery may do more harm than good, however, to the game’s playerbase, and it’s kinda childish to look down on other players just because they don’t share your preferences.
Try a little more understanding and a little less derision, people. This is a serious issue and should be approached with a little more nuance than “DPS bad, tank/healer good, enjoy your wait lol.”