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Blush emoji is the forum meta now. You must embrace it. :blush:

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What you said can be considered to be breaking CoC. Though, I doubt anything will happen since you apologised.

No need to. All you need to do is not use toxic words and you’re all good. <3

I respect your opinion but will have to disagree. :blush:

I never said it was massively harassing. That being said, it’s harassment nonetheless. :slight_smile:

What a reasonable person would consider to be harassing and toxic. :slight_smile: Just think of me as a reasonable person and you’re all good. :smiley:

Thank you. That is all. :relieved:

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What did I say that broke the CoC? :worried: Please quote?

Could you please list the toxic words?

I think not only me but a lot of people could benefit from knowing what the toxic words are. You seem to know exactly what they are, so please share?

I’m having a hard time understanding how I am harassing someone I never sought out to talk to, and have only responded to? Honestly… Couldn’t I say you’re harassing me?

This, and you, are all very confusing… And I haven’t considered anything really either of us has said to be toxic, but you seem to feel there has been some severe transgression that requires moderation…

I don’t understand why you feel that…

Could you please list thee toxic words that warrant moderators attention? Is silly on that list?

Could you also sort of elaborate on how I could avoid making you feel offended?

That’d be great, thanks. I want the best for you. :blush:

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You called me silly. Definition wise, it can be considered to be trolling and harassment. Both of which are against CoC.

I rather not. Like I said, treat me as a reasonable person and you’re fine.

No need to. You know the answer. :slight_smile: This discussion is over now. It was a nice chat Quest. I’ll chat with you next time. :slight_smile:

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Really? It’s come down to me calling you silly that makes you feel moderators should silence me? That I’m trolling and harassing you by calling you “silly”? That’s what it’s about?

Alright… Like I would have never thought calling someone “silly” would be so offensive. Now that I know, like I said, I won’t call you silly anymore, hun.

I’d rather you would. For my own benefit and all the other people that are discussing things on this forum. If you just give us the list of toxic words, then we can actively avoid using them to the benefit of all discussion! You wouldn’t have such negative experiences either! I don’t understand why you’d be against sharing your list of toxic words…

Why are you so against giving us the list?

You seem like someone that wants quality discussion, and for everyone to be happy and light and us to all get along and for things to go well… Yet you hold onto your list of toxic words like they’re the nuclear codes. Why? There’s no reason to be secretive.

Let people know what the toxic words are! Let us all work together! Why be shy now when you already went back and forth with me for so long?

Please! We want the toxic word list!

I’d assume it’d start off as…

  1. Silly
  2. ???

Fill it out for us!

:blush:

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Please respect my decision to leave this discussion. Thank you. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Memes you say?

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I do hun. Sleep well :slight_smile: Don’t feel obligated to respond to me, after all, you’re the one that opted out.

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Now I feel bad. :weary: Do you still want that list?

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Yes

Why isn’t <21365> working!? :angry:

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Okay.

Anything in the dictionary that isn’t toxic, demeaning or harassing.

There are 171,476 in the dictionary. I’m sure you can find all the words out of the number that is toxic. I believe in you! :slight_smile:

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You can only do it with letters. :yum:

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I didn’t want homework, hun. I wanted a list. :blush:

You have established yourself as someone who is familiar with the dictionary, so you can easily list off what in the dictionary isn’t “toxic, demeaning, or harassing.”

And like how it went with “silly” what I consider innocent and fun, you could consider toxic… So… I’d rather your list. :rofl:

Instead of just reading the dictionary. :sweat_smile:

:blush:

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You wanted a list. I’m giving you the opportunity to make one. After all, you said you wanted a list. :smiley: Dont’t worry. I’m sure someone as intelligent as you can do it with ease. :slight_smile:

Now, where’s the fun in that? Also, I don’t know the entire dictionary back to front and never claimed to. That’s why I’m asking you do to it since you want the list so badly. I can’t just sit there and do nothing! Hence why I opted to help you out. :slight_smile:

Just read the definitions. :smiley:

Anyway, good luck on your quest. :wink: (see what I did there? :joy:)

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I didn’t say I wanted to research and make my own list :rofl: I said I wanted YOUR list of toxic words! :blush: I thought “silly” was innocent and fun! You felt it was something the mods should silence me for or something!!! Clearly if I read through the dictionary, what I’d consider innocent and fun would differ from yours, right?

That’s why I asked for your list! :sweat_smile:

And you have established you’re VERY familiar with the dictionary, or at least implied it… So I’d assume it’d be easy for you to just like give us your list, right?

Or maybe it’s hard? I don’t know? :laughing: You’re the one that made this such an important issue! Why you making me have to do my own footwork for it!? :blush:

You’re not helping me out though, you’r just confusing me. You have acted like you have a FIRM understanding on the dictionary and the usage of words. One that I clearly fail to understand to the point of you thinking the mods should silence me. (WTF?!)

So I just want to understand YOUR position. You just saying “read the dictionary 4head LULZ” doesn’t help me understand your postion, cuz like I said… I thought “silly” was innocent and fun. You felt it was enough to warrant silencing.

I want to understand that. I’d never think using the term silly would warrant silencing…

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You said you wanted a list. :slight_smile: There are multiple ways to approach that request. :slight_smile:

I’ve never claimed to have a firm understanding on the dictionary and the usage of words. Please don’t make such assertions. :slight_smile:

I said you shouldn’t since you apologised. :blush:

It would since the term itself is toxic and harassing but you apologised so you’re fine. :slight_smile:

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I’ll say again, I wanted YOUR list. Not just any list. YOURS specifically. You are the one that determined “silly” is toxic. I conceded and said alright, I won’t use it. I never considered “silly” toxic. So I want you to give me a list of words that are “toxic” so I can avoid using them.

You won’t.

Why? I don’t know. If you had such a list, I would figure you’d want to share it so we can all avoid these toxic terms and unnecessary conversations like this one? :blush:

I mean… You’re the one that took issue with a certain word. “Silly.” So please, expound on why this word, and what other words, are toxic. So we can avoid this.

I think it’s best for everyone :slight_smile:

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I mean, I called you out for using, according to the definition, a toxic word. Asking me to list more toxic words sorta defeats the purpose of me calling you out and makes me look like a hypocrite. So yeah, I’d rather not. Hence why I gave you the chance to filter out the words yourself. You don’t want to do that. No list I’m afraid. :man_shrugging:t2: I also risk moderator action so I rather not deal with that either. :slight_smile:

Hope you can understand.

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You came in and said the word is toxic. You cited the hard dictionary definition as to why it was toxic.

I agreed.

I then asked for you to list similar words that can be seen as toxic. Like, are we just going off the hard dictionary definition? Or the subtle contextual suggestion? Where do we draw the line?

That’s why I wanted your list. You declared I used a word I didn’t consider toxic as toxic. I can see it. I want to know what other words to avoid using.

There must be more than just “silly.”

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Like I said, I risk moderator suspension if I list out toxic words and it is hypocritical to call you out for toxic remarks whilst also listing out my own toxic remarks. With that in mind, I’ve opted to not make such a list. I ask you to respect that and we can go about our day. :blush:

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