I read something through in it’s entirety already. I then read something else through; before replying, I go back to read something through before writing out a reply. I then look through related information (possibly referenced posts, topical context, replies to that). So by the time i’m “skimming” something, I’ve given it far more read-time than people give the courtesy to assume of someone else for their first “read”. Esp the ones that are already replying to a clause, and pride themselves on disregarding the context.
But ya know, good job on walking into to my ‘hypocrisy’ jab
In a written medium where people tend to forget that previous stuff can be double-checked, it’s oh so magically wonderful how the intentionally-ignorant take pride in their smarm cuz "foot in mouth’ syndrome typically requires some sort of public humiliation to call them out on it, and that doesn’t exist here. Not that that really helps impose ‘self awareness’ on those fixed on imposed "hypocrisy’ to actually get over themselves. I guess if they did that, they’d actually be happy and spend their time elsewhere instead of engaging in neep-e gniruseam for lacirohpatem schunue.
What I posted doesn’t ‘defend’ either party: I posted clarification on something you misconstrued with bad assumptions. The bad assumptions tend to lead to other stuff that I would rather not happen, but funnily enough, it’s almost as if the people that fault anyone else they can don’t learn to stop doing this stuff and repeat it from one topic to another. Once they do it enough, then it’s a ‘hive mind’ that has to call them out on bad assumptions despite the odd coincidence of events the follows for users that actually come to the forums and post a complaint more than once per account.
You don’t read things through, claim you do, or are right anyway, and persist in disingenuous discussion that try to draw an “us” vs “them” viewpoint. Having a second account to ‘agree’ with yourself is just more evident dishonesty, but I guess for people that actually read and think through their stuff before going off into indignant automation, that might be more obvious to realize before someone points it out.
You draw an oddity that people say the ‘ignore’ you, don’t actually reply to everything to post, and then find it odd that when you reply enough to something, that they do actually check something out. You then disregard most anything else in favor of a conclusion of ‘right/wrong’ and effectively assert you’ve better for doing stuff that makes you lose worse to others that actually read more than the latest reply a person posts.
That is not actually what ‘every gm does’.
con·tro·ver·sial | ˌkäntrəˈvərsēəl, ˌkäntrəˈvərSH(ə)l |
adjective
giving rise or likely to give rise to public disagreement:
people have disagreed with the ambitious statement, and the ambiguity of the post. So that does make it “controversial”. Unless the context of this environment consists of too few a people to be the ‘public’ now.
A lot of people assume that their experience is what ‘everyone’ else has, thus problem and complaint. If someone doesn’t have that same ‘experience’, they don’t see it as a problem, so they’ll voice their ‘ego’ as a way to confirm that not everything is as what one particular perspective has claimed.
If someone doesn’t decry a particular perspective, then some come to assume that that is the only case, so when certain things happen to them, there isn’t any alternative. Without the option for alternatives, people some looking for that deviation and it mires into the same mess. Since “toxic” is so easy a word to toss out now, people tend to fixate on only two outcomes: agree and disagree. So if something doesn’t repeat the complaint/whatever, then it has to be “toxic”
What has been expressed by the ‘bully’ perspective has attempted to be clarified by more than one post. From a wide-context in the game, the ‘average’ player does not learn good ‘core’ functions of the game, and essentially seems like they have to re-learn the game each time they pick up a different hero. Some posters also claim they are incapable of learning from AI modes and insist such things are ‘bad’ for players to use.
So in place of just ‘one’ counter-perspective, there are several nuisances that differ in opinion, rather than just an agree/disagree or ‘defend/bully’ perspective. However, if people are only looking to see someone bloat their ‘ego’ instead of sharing what worked for them, then it’s going to make anything seem ‘toxic’ around here since tone can be imposed however anyone wants. That is the magic power of reading.