Yes, I have suggested this many times. Unlike majority of the people (in general, not just here), I am perfectly aligned when it comes to what I want and how I act. I want chaos and disbalance, because that’s how we get to that point. And I want that point, because it takes me too long to pick up new stuff and adapt, so the only way to take my weakness and turn it into a strength is if “picking up new stuff and adapting” becomes a non-option because it’s too slow.
In such times, picking ANYTHING up and simply sticking to it and changing things 1 by 1 will sooner or later end up being the optimal strategy (this is also not quite easy to understand, but simply follow the logic and see where it brings us):
If I remain using the same strategy while the meta around me changes on a daily basis, sooner or later a meta weak to my strategy will happen. I will then shine, and use the knowledge I got from there and then as a compass, a feedback showing me the direction in which I’m supposed to optimize.
That way, I could turn my weakness into a strength. But does the same logic work on everyone else? Are we really all the same? Na-ah.
So at least I always tell people what they think they want isn’t what they really want. I would appreciate if people did that for me, but not because they wanna gaslight me, but because it’s clear that I’m gaslighting myself and they wanna help me.
Btw, this has been proven in psychology. People really do not know what they really want, it’s a fact. And it’s more or less a tautology, because if they knew what they wanted, they wouldn’t want it anymore, because as soon as we get what we want, we want something else. Being a tautology means it doesn’t require proof, but for people not well versed in logic, proof is acceptable, so there you have it.