It wouldn’t hurt a bit. Other than your pocket book.
I would examine her setup. See how many memory slots she has, and what kind of memory it supports. 16GB could mean you have 4x 4GB, or 2x 8GB, or 1x 16GB. Your board may have 2 or 4 slots total. Rare more expensive boards might have more memory slots. (I have an older 3 channel with 6 for example)
If you are only running one module, you should get a pair of 16s that match. If you have two slots with two 8s, then you will still need a pair of 16s. If you have 4 slots and are only using 2 of them, then you can either add a pair of 8s or a pair of 16s.
Or you can go crazy and buy a pair of 32s, but honestly it shouldn’t need that much. I run 32GB here, and a 16GB GPU - 4080 Super FE.
I just did a WHOLE bunch of stuff that will probably cause me issues in the game. I updated my BIOS, updated my Intel motherboard drivers, updated the video card again today to 556.12. I still have 9 more driver updates to switch to as I run through them one by one. (I’m doing this to see how the game performs after each update) To start with, I was 20 driver versions behind most of you two weeks ago. lol
SO FAR. The game has been playing okay. I have noticed some hitching here and there, but it usually smooths out. Today was just heavy, as I had changed a TON of things. Including the CPU power usage. I had it capped to 150W, now its back to 241W. So its producing more heat and using more power. But a tad faster. I was capped in response to the BIOS/Intel issue, even though I was on a 12th gen i9. Just wasn’t taking any chances.
As for task manager:
When you alt tab, it moves the game to the background FPS, which is set to 8. So that tracks for it to slow down.
All you really are looking for is the graph, it will show where it has been for the past few seconds. What we want to see is if its nearly full at any time. Same with the section labeled “Committed”. ← That’s your virtual memory, which is also critical to the game. Its a combined total of your physical memory and your currently allocated swap file size.
If the first number is near the same as the next number
(example: 31.3/32.0 GB)
Then its also too full.