Ok so I read your definition.
“Games that let you buy better gear or to make better items then everyone else at a faster rate and then makes the game largely unbalanced even for people who have skill in the game without paying.”
By your own definition, paying someone to run content for you so you can get gear IS pay to win.
By your own definition, buying tokens to buy BoEs and legendaries IS pay to win, you absolute moron.
By your own definition, paying for a pvp boost so you can get max ilevel PvP gear IS pay to win.
How can you people be this stupid?
Do you honestly believe that paying someone to kill a boss and give you the loot doesn’t fit the above definition?
How brain dead are you?