I don’t need to work on anything. I have great friends, good family, self worth, and my identity isn’t tied to my sexual preference.
I’m in an amazing spot.
I do show empathy for those who aren’t in the same spot. Hence why i said I pity them because I know it’s crap. But until they work on themselves they are never going to be whole. Linking your self worth to what someone else thinks/says/does, to representation in a movie, a video game is just completely sad. That means you don’t have self worth, you don’t have any value in who you are as a person, and that’s something that they need to work on.
Being validated by someone else is like putting a bandaid on an arterial wound. It won’t help in the long run.
Not a troll mate. Choosing to need validation from other people is a choice. These people are choosing to be unhappy. To tie their self worth to other peoples opinions.
That existence is a choice. They can choose to change the way they think and choose to change their circumstances. They choose not to. Hence why i tell them to enjoy it because it is at the end of the day a choice they have made.
Its also almost like you didn’t really read the bulk of what I wrote.
Like, I get it, you don’t really understand human phycology and won’t care about something unless it affects you personally but this whole “Well work on YOURSELF” is just another form of victim blaming and like…Be better?
Winter is great tho. I love Christmas, tho I doubt I’ll be seeing people because of the plague and all that. Still, gunna decorate, gunna make cookies, gunna watch all the horrible Christmas movies (Lifetime is making a gay one? Gunna watch 500 times for sure)
I like how topics concerning anti-White hatred are deleted/locked/gulaged but LGBT concerns in a world where every corporation panders to them is kept on a video game forum.
Nah mate. I haven’t and wont read what you wrote because its stock standard self pity victim mentality BS that minority communities ramble on about all the time.
Tieing your self worth to others opinions is just plain pathetic. It’s complete weakness. It shows no strength of character. You’re basically a simp.
If blizzard is stupid enough to cave to this request - which I hope they aren’t.
Then they need to make some female dwarf lesbians to be a true representation of the community. Make them female dwarf so as not to play up the pretty boy stereotype.
Leave wrathion and Anduin as heterosexuals.
By making them female dwarf blizzard is also telling LGBTI people that you don’t have to be pretty to be accepted as being gay. By doing it they aren’t perpetuating the myth that to be gay is to be pretty, a myth that results is LGBTI people having eating disorders and body dismorphia.
I agree with this. Shouldn’t have announced it. It should have been something cure they found while questing. 85% of this wouldnt have happened. But they announced it, which was dumb
No, the conversion groups are incredibly toxic and hostile atmospheres. You also appear to have missed my point where I said that their core purpose (turning gay to straight) cannot be done. You cannot ungay yourself. Instead they just submit vulnerable youth to emotional abuse. My issue is with both the camps and the parents.
I know you think you had a “gotcha” moment there but that analogy falls apart rapidly. Trans people are changing their physical bodies to be in harmony with their gender identity. These are both changes, yes, but one is wanted and one is unwanted. One brings harmony to a sense of gender identity, and one leaves many participants with suicidal ideation and anxiety. They are not the same.
I just read an article similar to your feelings written earlier this week from an African American Civil Rights leader discussing how he didn’t support BLM for the obvious reasons, he felt all the ground laying they did in the 60’s is being destroyed now, how most of the older generation did not want to even associate themselves with BLM and what they are doing because that does not represent what they are about, what they wanted for their people nor how they wanted others to see them.
Obviously 2 separate issues but the same idea. The younger generation is erasing the work of the older. I think it would do some good for the younger to educate themselves before they speak and appreciate what the older has gone through to get them to where they are.
I would just point out that your identity is intrinsically tied to your sexual preference simply because you identify as straight - and there’s nothing wrong with that! It’s completely normal because your sexual preference shapes how you interact with the world and how it interacts with you.
I would also suggest that you do not value the things you listed because they generally work in your favour. No one screams slurs at you for being straight and you have a host of straight characters to see in every media. Perhaps they appear worthless to you because they are common, right? How much is water worth to a person by a lake versus the middle of the desert?
Your sexual preference is a part of who you are. It’s just who you are attracted to and sleep with. There are straight acting gay people, there are femme gay people.
The way you act is a choice and nothing to do with your sexual preference or all gay people would act exactly the same.