Joined a pug for heroic Tindral
Druid dps is wearing a 437 ilvl pvp trinket
Types in raid chat: “That druid is wearing a 437 ilvl pvp trinket, thanks for the invite”
Leaves raid
Gets whisper from druid: “You’re trying too hard”
Who’s wrong here?
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from the sounds of it you are
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Was the 437 trinket grossly detrimental to the raid’s efforts?
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You think you’re going to get validation for being a dick? Oh noes, someone has a bad trinket equipped, better freak out about it.
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That Druid had to have been doing some low dps for you to inspect him
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I mean, you could have just let things play out and then raise it as an issue if the group started to run into trouble, your path of choice seems “douchey”.
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If I join a pug, look around and see that it is mostly undergeared alts, I just silently leave. No point in making a scene about it.
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Imagine trying in heroic lol
Oh no someone’s not wearing bis items in a pug. The horror!
But unless they were doing poorly, it’s rather rude/drama starting to point stuff out like that.
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So, you left because of one player with a 437 pvp trinket? I think you’re leaving out the rest of his gear and his dps. Sure, his trinket is horrible but you’re missing a lot of details here.
Hate to say this but you are. You didn’t give one pull a chance before you noped out. Everyone there seemed ok with who was all there but you. One person is replaceable and that person was you. 
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By the sounds of it, you are, yeah. If you gave it a couple pulls and it was obvious the druid was an issue, and then you voiced something about it (hopefully a bit more tactfully) then that’s different.
The choices made here though just scream poorly done.
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Kinda like to see OP’s gear now, since they were so keen to point out a random DPS player’s stuff.
< twiddles thumbs around nervously >
Haha yeah. Cant imagine.
Also like to add that leaving before anyone could respond is a cheap move and speaks a lot about who you are as a person. Maybe that Druid didn’t realize they had a PvP trinket on? You just made yourself look like a fool.
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Nobody was wrong. If the Druid is pulling their weight, they aren’t wrong for being there in whatever gear. If you can’t handle being in a raid with someone who had one bad piece of gear, then its your choice to leave and you aren’t wrong.
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Imagine leaving a group because of one item in one slot on one character in a raid group, then posting a public thread asking who was wrong.
What, are you just inspecting everyone looking for a problem before you even start playing the game?
And then, why do you point out the trinket instead of just leaving? It makes it look like your whole motive was just to bring someone down and say they aren’t “good enough” for whatever reason at any cost. If your motive was actually just “because of this one trinket this guy has, it would be to my advantage to find another group” why say that?
I can pretty much guarantee you that everyone in that group laughed at your little episode and then went on to enjoy the game with each other, while you, instead, behaved terribly to the point that you are ruminating about this event and asking people on the internet to help lift this burden off your conscious.
Yes, you are wrong. At no point did you do anything reasonable. However, I don’t think you should feel guilty about this. All you really did was punish yourself. Everyone else laughed at the weirdo and carried on with the raid and forgot about you in 30 seconds. Don’t worry about it.
Also, please see a therapist.
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Excuse me. Why are you sweating ?
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Were you in the raid? Guess I found the druid being carried
Lol, calm down
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tbh when i leave a group for whatever reason i just bounce and say zero lol.
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