I’ve been leveling this Mistweaver via dungeon finder until the rest of my family gets on the Panda train, and my actual experience has (thankfully) been nothing like what this thread would suggest. People have been chill and kind. If the tank goes slow because they’re learning Brewmaster, people are cool with going slow. If the tank blasts through everything pulling all the trash to the next boss (more common), they’re cool with that too. I’ve had maybe 2 groups with jerks in them.
Just offering that anecdotal experience because I wouldn’t want anyone to get discouraged about trying it out based on the forum reactions.