I never lose because I never play on a pvp server. I call it griefing because in almost every case the power difference is so great that the lower level player has no chance. It’s like playing chess with the opponent getting 3 queens to start and the other getting none. What the history of wow shows us is that most people don’t want wpvp. Over and over the players realized they made a mistake and chose to create single faction servers. Blizzard finally recognized that and added warmode.