Either as soon as you pull aggro for non intentional tanking… or as soon as you get the meta rune for intentional tanking.
For the 40 bracket you’re going to want to go down one of the trees… Destro to conflag is what I’ll play. Affliction to darkpact is next best (you don’t even really need dark pact, you just don’t really have a better option for that last point)
Demo to soul link will also work for dueling and for base sitting in arathi, but don’t expect to actually be that useful
Really though you’ll want either aff or destro at 40, specifically because you’ll want to take advantage of the increased range talents present in either of the respective trees (and by 60 you want both of those talents)… It might not seem like much, but simply being able to cast from 36 yards instead of a mere 30 will -=DRAMATICALLY=- increase your ability to survives in bg situations, as you’ll simply be out of reach from most threats.
Advice for playing a lock:
Learn your spell combos. in pvp when you’re allowed to cast you want to link a 2.5 cast travel time spell to a 1.5 cast no travel time spell, into an instant attack. The reasoning for this is that the combination of spells will all land and nearly the same exact instant, leading to HUGE burst.
Don’t just “zug dot” everything. It can get really frustrating playing with a warlock who dots everything in site constantly, as it can disrupt potentially critical CCs that would otherwise be going out. This is especially problematic with newer locks, since their dots tend to be pretty weak and making a priest immune to sheep for ~24 seconds so a greened out warlock could do all of 4% of the guy’s health every 3 seconds is pretty #feelsbad… That’s not to say that you never spread the dots around, just that you need to be smart about who and when you are dotting things.
Health IS mana for a warlock… This means while classes like mage might need to refill their mana bar drinking over 24 seconds, if a warlock is oom but full heealth, they can lifetap to even the bars out then eat and drink and be done in like 1/3rd the time.
Have 2 ranks of lifetap keybound Max rank when you need it, but 2nd highest rank for when you don’t need the massive amount. There’s no point in taking more health than required to top your mana off, and no sense in taking a huge chunk to overcap your mana.