Unsubbing: gaming and addiction

I wanted to throw out a PSA: that if you do not feel well, feel you’re spending too much time in game, that you feel you’re avoiding responsibility, have too much anxiety from gaming etc. that it’s okay to take a break and do something else.

I decided to unsub recently because I realized I’m addicted in a very unhealthy way. In fact, I’ve been playing too much and it started affecting my every day life. I skirt responsibility, I procrastinate, and the time spent playing the game I’m not even enjoying it.

My time in-game has actually been pretty miserable lately. Formulaically, I do a few m+ a week, I run my dungeons for mogs/mounts, and whether I get my rewards or not, I feel bad regardless… but kept playing. And if I accomplished everything, I just find a new thing to worry about. Most recently I decided to give myself an hour of play time to do something, but I noticed I had some dubloons and wasn’t far from a crate. Well, how long could it take? Few hours later, I wasted my time, skirted study time I was going to do, and am behind. These things have been recurring lately and it’s been adding to my anxiety and furthering my procrastination habits. As a result I decided to unsub so I can focus on more important things, as well as pick up a different hobby.

This is in no way a thread against WoW or its current state or against video games.

Instead, I just wanted to throw a PSA, that if you’re not doing well, are using this game as an unhealthy escapism, or if you are feeling similar to me, that it is ok to take a break, do something else, and come back later. Mental health is important and even though we can use games for stress relief or helping us cope with something, that does not mean we can’t get addicted. Excess of anything can be dangerous and it can burn us out, fry our dopamine receptors, and hurt us in other areas of life. Moderation is always key and it’s ok to admit you need a break.

edit: no you cant have my gold.

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There’s nothing wrong with stepping away. Just take your time and enjoy other things. Wow will be here when you get everything straightened out.

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My wife told me I was addicted to drinking brake fluid. But I told her I could stop anytime.

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I was a born procrastinator. I even took an extra week before I decided to lazily pop out of my mother.

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I had to forcibly do this a few years ago when I realized I was allowing the game and its time commitments to supercede RL responsibilities. At the end of the day, it’s meant as entertainment and you can’t pour all your energy into it without sacrificing your own mental and physical health.

Nothing wrong with playing and having things you want to do, but everything in moderation. Good luck!

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Self awareness and working on your weaknesses are always beneficial. Best of luck.

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Right? Im going to stop procrastinating as well, tomorrow.

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Time to hit the gym.

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My daughter had to be uh… forcibly removed 15 days after her due date. She was a professional procrastinator.

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Hope you feel better, and maybe you can return someday with a healthier mindset!

Best wishes :slight_smile:

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It’s amazing that this game still holds this power over some people. It’s so bad in its current state! Proud of you and you’ve made the right call. Encourage you to attend a twelve step group for assistance and or therapy / medication.

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I have the opposite going on.

I can’t bring myself to log in outside of raids because my mental health makes it so I no longer enjoy things I used to enjoy.

Nothing wrong w/ unsubbing for a bit or doing something else until new/fresh content arrives

Honestly, feels like 50% of forum regulars have unsubbed or taken a break since Shadowlands launched (including GD regulars), it’s bad :chart_with_downwards_trend:

The mass-exodus of regular posters has turned some subforums into ghost-towns (example: PvP/battlegrounds forums), it’s really noticeable or “hard to ignore” if you used to spend a decent amount of time in those other subforums

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I’m a guild leader of a raiding guild. It would be really not good for the health of the group to disappear. That’s the reason I log in to raid and tank m+ when asked.

I have responsibilities such as recruiting people for next tier, and next expansion, and laying the foundation for a second team/alt run.

This is when you delegate responsibility to your officers. If they’re not willing to do officer stuff, time to find new ones.

This is actually an important thing to point out. I didn’t actually even enjoy playing it, but I did anyways. Not the same but it’s similar behavior you see in drug addicts. They heard its bad. They know its bad. They know it’s killing them. They know they don’t feel good anymore. And they do it anyways. That realization is what made me think its time to quit.

I don’t know your full situation and I’m not a therapist, but do consider taking time off regardless for your own well being if you believe you need a change or the game is affecting your mental health. Chris Metzen quit Blizz for mental health reasons. Take that into consideration.

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Don’t get hooked on the forums while your waiting for your sub to lapse. I take care of your real self first. Level up those skills in RL!

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Actually needed to hear this as well. Thanks brother gonna log out from here.

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I’m in the care of a psychiatrist and a therapist and and will be taking both my health insurance and the county health system to court via my advocate lawyer because they keep refusing to give me a higher level of care I need and passing responsibility off to the other one.

Logging in 6-8 hours a week is not having any negative impact on me. At all. I understand that you have problems with playing too much, but don’t project that on me.

My problems stem from a boatload of trauma (I’m trying to do intensive outpatient therapy during the summer but the insurance is jerking me around) and a treatment resistant major depressive episode that happens like clockwork in early to mid March and persists until November without fail that leaves me with anhedonia and exhaustion for eight months every year. I’m going to be going on Spravato for a while.

If that doesn’t work I’m going to undergo weekly ECT. If that doesn’t work I’m going to look into a cingulotomy because it will take away my ability to feel psych pain, it also takes away the ability to feel joy and happiness, not that I feel that anyhow.

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Good on you for realizing you had an issue and taking the incentive to fix it. I wish you well :tada::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::+1: