My point is this: people claiming the FFXIV is somehow “better” is kinda …just not accurate. It’s literally the same community, just hiding some of the nastier aspects to avoid a ban. Once you get past surface level niceties, you find out it’s the same old crap you find in any MMORPG, because it’s the same crowd migrating between most of those games.
I currently don’t play any, so it’s not me favoring one over the other as I really don’t care at this point, but it is what it is, and that’s the same community with a fresh coat of paint.