It’s like people IRL going to a bar thinking they’ll find their soulmate.
Doesn’t work like that 9 time out of 10.
Also, if you’re looking for regularly-hosted events (ie. weekly) or Discord communities, check out the pinned post on this forum:
I’m not trying to self-plug or whatever its called, it really is full of community groups, guilds, discords, events, anything you could want to get connected with RP and although I don’t play anymore, I do keep it updated.