On this particular topic, I run LFR on my enchanter alts for more opportunities to get easy enchanting materials. If loot drops for me, whether I “need” it or not, it’s mine to do whatever I please with it. If I want to give something away, I will say to roll for it in raid chat. If not-- it’s mine.
I guess there is an add-on that allows players to automatically see if someone ELSE’S loot is something they need, and it automatically sends a whisper to them.
I can’t stand that. I get where people are coming from, and it doesn’t hurt to ask, but some people are so obnoxious about it. They aren’t entitled to my loot any more than I am entitled to anyone else’s. They also aren’t entitled to a response if I didn’t offer the item up for everyone to roll for.
All that being said, I don’t mind the option to roll for loot in pre-made groups or guild runs.
PUG lyfe is PUG lyfe, though. Temper your expectations and you’ll be better off.