Omg, read your post and when I read the long walks on the beach part , immediately the song “Do you like Pina Coladas” came to mind… .thanks , now I will be singing that in my head all day 
I would love to chat with you , I am the GM of Allumination and will link you our recruitment post, if you are interested I am around for a while before work this morning and will be home after 5 tonight , have an amazing day filled with love and laughter my friend Allumination ~ Stormrage