Hi Raybies,
I’m not a recruiter for my guild (I just bump our recruitment thread here or there), but the guild I’m in is striving to build a social community and not just a raiding guild. That said, we do plan to raid. Here’s a link to the recruitment thread.
I think we’d be a great fit for you, your wife, and friend. I’m a stay at home mom and we have several parents and a few grandparents in our guild. We’re really social in discord. We do keys and transmog runs together. On the note of kids, my six year old has talked over me while I was speaking in discord a smattering of times and no one has seemed to care. When I first came across the guild’s recruitment thread I told the guild leader that if she accomplished what she was going for then she’d have a fantastic guild, and so far she’s doing an amazing job of it.