Look, I’m not going to try to tell anyone not to do content as fast as the group you have can do it. I’ve surrendered to and even made use of the fact that the current leveling dungeon reality takes advantage of the fact that tanks are nigh invincible in current content. It is what it is and I’m not here to tell you it’s not. It’s reality.
What I am finding is that this reality is often times ignoring another reality that allows a group with no more than one invincible person in it to function alongside said invincible person.
I just left, without a single word (as a DPS who would be replaced immediately) a leveling dungeon where the tank opened by politely asking everyone not to attack anything because he was going to pull literally everything before the first boss at once. As I sighed at my keyboard, I at least credited said tank with the manners to communicate, so thumbs up and full marks on that score.
He then took off and I realized this was going to go one of two ways, he either knew or he didn’t that…
Nope he didn’t know.
He clearly did not know that just asking everyone not to attack isn’t enough. First off, it’s a leveling dungeon and as I’ve seen since returning in novemeber, the modern WoW player has a better than average chance of not seeing LFD dungeons as a place to chat. Indeed, in conversations almost a decade old I can recall pretty reasonable WoW community conversations citing that “no one talks unless something is wrong, so talking is a red flag.” It’s dumb, but that’s the culture. My point is, not watching chat is something we have to assume and prepare for. So asking the DPS not to attack and not getting confirmation that everyone saw that is your first mistake. This isn’t your team, these are randos, and they’re not necessarily seeing the group as “human.” It’s gross, but it’s the culture. So away he goes, and the predictible happens: Someone gets hurt, the healer heals them, and because the tank is just going on “no one should be doing anything” as an assumption of full threat, the healer pulls agro and traaaaainwreck.
So I leave, because it’s going to get ugly and follower dungeons don’t abide by the dungeon cooldown, and because there have been deaths, there’s no deserter (at least I assume that’s why.)
Dear tanks, you can do “keep up” tanking, I’m not saying you can’t, but you do have to contact things and actually maintain threat, especially if anyone is taking damage and the healer is healing them. Healing generates threat. You can’t just expect everyone to melt in the wake of your huge pulls, you do have to make sure stuff is on you.
I mean, you don’t have to, but if you want healers in queue, you should maybe extend this courtesy.
Sincerely,
A “career tank” who would like to do some dungeons on my alts.
Have a nice day, and remember, you can always reclaim your time and leave a group, but hurling insults around is impotent silliness.