Yep, for sure. 100% you can be the kinda dps that pulls for the tank, that’s dope that that’s working for you. In my experience, most people really don’t like that self oriented kind of play-style or person.
But In this particular example, in this post, the grief was not that the tank wasn’t pulling enough; rather that he was pulling back to back without reprieve for stealth. And when he brought it up with the tank, in the same way you would to communicate that he should pull around your cool-downs, he was told to change class. Sorry mate, that’s why I thought you were making a funny joke. Cos it would have been a funny joke.