Hey there,
Your story sounds very familiar to mine, I’m an old (very old) school tank that has adapted quite a bit along the way but have drifted away from focused, hardcore raiding. Check us out:
We’re Alliance side, based on Lothar, which is East Coast, and connected to a whole mess of other realms. We aren’t a raiding guild but we do raid and Wednesdays are locked in, looking to add another day when SL gets really rolling. In any case, best of look finding a new guild!