I play from Asia. Getting 100-250ms is normal for me. I’ve been though 400-500ms back on vanilla too. Some people are just lazy to adapt to the latency. lol
The word “carry” can be insulting to some people.
Likewise, and I never suffer these lag issues people claim,
except either launch days or DDoses, but those are few and far between.
P.S. I’m not using a $3000 PC either 
You assume too much Scandal and you weren’t the one who seen what was in the group. There was three players, which were attached to the same server, and one was in full blues. So your assumptions and statements are insignificant Scandal.
Was that nice? No. Question is, “Were you pointed out as a bad player and now you’re taking it personal Scandal?” Go play a game that’s equal to your skills like Minecraft Dungeons.