I mean, its not just going in a direction we disapprove of. It is the systematic deconstruction of everything that made this race special to us. It’s a continuous and repeating pattern. One I do not deny happens to other races, but not as much and not in the same way.
Furthermore, I don’t think there is anything wrong with being passionate about fiction. Again, your experience is not our experience.
There are degrees to consider. Maybe I can put it into perspective.
Fantasy is something I have always loved, even as a young child. However, it was never quite as geared towards girls as much as it was geared toward boys. Lord of the Rings, for example, (and still among my favorite series of books and movies) is dominated by an nearly all-male cast, with the occasional spattering of minor female characters.
In D&D, the Drow is a race of subterranean, Matriarchal Elves… Cool, except traditionally they are inherently evil figures that are intended to be overcome and beaten by what is most likely a male adventuring party.
I don’t want to get too preachy about feminism, but just keep in mind, that’s stuff I look for an I identify with. Powerful, even domineering women in fantasy, and the traditionally few examples that exist, has always been something, even as a youngin, I have been inherently drawn too and identified with.
While I was always a fan of Warcraft from Warcraft 2, the Night Elves won the day in Warcraft 3, with these powerful, matriarchal warrior women. Malfurion getting told my Tyrande whenever he thought to tell her what to do. “Only the Goddess may forbid me anything” has always been in the forefront of my mind when playing my Night Elf.
So something as seemingly trivial as a “Hush Tyrande” moment is not just a direction I do not like, it is a full breach of everything I loved about the race and character. It’s taking everything you like about something, and making it not that.
And yeah, it is just fiction, but it sucks to have something taken away from you. It’s worse than even the material sense, it’s something being taken from you in the sentimental sense.
Sure, I can wash my hands of it, and probably be a lot happier for it. I am fully capable of doing that. I am perfect healthy and sound of mind to do that. But I shouldn’t have too… No one should. Instead, Blizzard has a responsibility to deliver on the promise they, themselves have made to their fans, and take the care that should be expected from a franchise that is so beloved by so many.