Loot Drops

I am so frustrated with this game. Sorry for another post like this but I need to vent. I have done lfr raids nearly every week since Shadowlands opened up LFR. This entire time I have only had 3 drops. The gear I have is either purchased or dontaed by players who don’t need the gear. How the heck do people seem to always be geared if the loot system is this unforgiving? I have a pretty busy life (kids, treatments…life) and try to get on and play when I can. I’m not trying for Mythic+ or grinding weekly. Just maybe a drop a month would be appreciated. Now it’s getting to the point that it isn’t fun anymore. Sorry again for the post. Just so frustrating.