My wife and I run a community and guild on Nordrassil called Civitas. This is a safe space, bigotry-free, friendly, inclusive, and fun. I myself have Asperger’s and my wife is ADHD. I will try to contact you on Discord as I hope we might be able to help you
I have sent you a Discord friend request as Treebeard.
Meanwhile, have a look at this thread as it will give you a better idea of what our guildies have to say about us