Vigilants of Tyr is recruiting, we totally understand life commitments. I haven’t attended an event since November because of work and IRL obligations 
Honestly, having a strict schedule for an RP guild is a bit silly imo, it’s not like you’re trying to fill a raid.
Even if we aren’t the guild for you, you are welcome to hang out in Discord with us, we are also a very active social group of people and happy to have new folks around to BS and chat about the game or other games and just w/e.