Really depends on how often you move it, and the like.
My Mid-2012 MacBook Pro is still going strong and performs quite well as my daily driver (it was, mind you, a top-end SKU at the time with the i7-3XXX that Apple was using, so 4 real cores + HT for 4 cores/8 threads). I keep the thermal solution clean and its a real workhorse.
PC laptops… really depends. If it wasn’t a high-end SKU from a relatively well-known manufacturer (Lenovo, ASUS, Acer, etc), then its probably got a fairly sub-par thermal solution to begin with, and if you’re not keeping it clean, itll heat up fast and throttle.
And it might have had middling-powerful hardware to begin with - a LOT of laptops even now ship with 2 core/4 thread CPUs, until you get into the 600+$ range.
So couple middling hardware that is now aging, with thermal throttling if you aren’t keeping it clean (and maybe a low amount of RAM unless you upgraded it) and it can all add up to a slow, slow machine.
An SSD would speed up system response times, and you could carry it forward to a new computer later, more RAM might help if you’re only packing 4GB (or only packing 8GB and heavily multitask)… and a good cleanout might help a ton.
Or, it might be time to upgrade.
Also, since this is for a family member…
What are they doing with this laptop? They may not need to shell out a lot of money for what they -actually need-.
For the average person, for what they actually do on the go (and for a lot of people literally EVERYTHING they do regularly), a good Chromebook (in the 350-400$ range) will more than do what they need. ChromeOS is so lightweight that the less powerful hardware doesn’t really bog it down.
I bought my son a Samsung Chromebook Plus (the first gen)… and its a pretty baller little computer. QHD+ screen, vibrant color, good keyboard, USB-C charging, comes with the S-pen, and supports Linux apps and Android apps.
Nothing he does on it slows down or bogs down, even with 5+ tabs open and the Android Discord app running in the background. Also flips into a tablet and the screen response with the S-pen is quite good.
Theyre only 400$ brand new and you can often find them on sale or used. I got his used for 200$. Worth every penny.
The newer model also swapped from a six-core ARM chip to a 4 core Intel chip, but they perform about the same, and for a little more money (another 100$) you can step up to the Chromebook Pro, which has an actual Intel laptop i5 in it, and more RAM. I have to imagine that thing, since it is running ChromeOS, is probably faster than all get out.