Talking in voice chat gives me tons of anxiety and listen to all the unrelated stuff annoys me. Don’t even get me started on pug discords. It kind of sucks that most do most of their socializing in discord.
Not really asking for a change or anything, that is all
I feel ya. I miss out on quite a bit because most of the socializing happens in Discord and I don’t want to have a bunch of internet people nattering in my ear the whole time I’m trying to play. But I’ve been in big social guilds before and the constant scrolling offtopic /g text can also be pretty annoying. In balance, I’m ok with being more or less disconnected from it and only jumping into voice for raids or keys.
Every guild I have been in used vent (now Discord) as a major means of socializing even not while grouping. Has been like this since Vanilla. Sure people will shoot the breeze in guild chat, but they are usually in voice as well and that is usually where most of the people hung out even when playing other games.
I just dont use it. No guild has ever made me. Some pugs will, if you need voice chat for keys then I dont even try coming in, I hate talking to randoms. Keys dont even require voice chat
I’ve left groups and guilds for requiring me to be on discord/vent/whatever favorite program of the moment was for requiring me to be on chat for trivial content. I don’t like it either man. If we aren’t friends, why would I want to be chatting?
I found it happened before Discord anyway. I sometimes don’t mind going on chat, but I don’t tend to talk on voice much.
One of my old guilds got convinced by my friends that I had a strong Asian accent and was embarrassed about it, and me trying to explain that I simply didn’t own a mic at the time only made them believe me less.