Eh. Probably a bunch of preteens. I was a like that at that age, i think a lot of us were .
Everything thats not hardcore is lame, “lol you play pretend in a video game thats so cringe” hormonal bags of confusion of angst.
Fortunately, most of us (i think) mature to a point where our insecurities rule our interactions.
IE: I enjoy semi-serious raiding, some people like M+, others just like to collect things and play dress up, arena junkies doing their thing and of course, RPers who like to get lost in the immersion and so on. Different strokes for different folks.
Laugh it off, be glad your not a preteen and go be the best…whatever you RP as!