Is your guild "cliquey"?

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Funny, OP’s guild is our furthest progressed on Aman’thul iirc.

But why necro this?

In my previous guild I’ve never done any m+ or raid with anyone (due to 12 hours time difference, I never made it for their weekly raid night), but anytime I saw my GL or those officers (GL’s real life friends) I’ll say hi (because I saw other people saying hi and I felt compelled to do the same) and chat with them for a bit. After they know me, they’ll say hi to me when I came online, but no key invite though, they knew that I haven’t got to that part of the game yet as I was quite new to WoW.

So I guess I was part of that clique group and I vaguely remember that there might be some other people who got ignored in guild chat.

I’m a guild officer, and yes there are cliques, but has more to do with who is sociable and who is not. Hell I’ve multi masked carried some people or helped in their low keys in the guild simply because they asked nicely :man_shrugging:

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How would you like to be a head in a new upstart guild?

I dont agree with cliques in guilds because based on what ive seen previously on how cliques work is it doesnt feel like a guild and starts to feel more like highschool (especially when the guild drama queens/kings are involved). Thankfully my guild is not like that. We help everyone, talk to everyone and make everyone feel welcome regardless of level, ilvl or content experience.

Life is “Cliquey” unfortunately. Been in the same guild since vanilla, I don’t know any of the newer members, and Only 2-3 of us are left from then. I am quiet af in chat nowadays and don’t get invited to any events. And am ignored in chat. Not even sure why I am still there anymore.

They aint what they used to be. People just hop from one to another based on how the guild can help their progression for the latest patch.

Well I don’t exactly pay 15$ a month to run you through stuff. i’d rather be pushing a 22 with people that have the ability to that I like being around, than pulling someone through a 15 that pulls 40k dps and dies 5 times to mechanics so we barely time the key.

If you want that, then buy a WoW token and buy some runs. Maybe your guildies will take up the offer if you pay them :money_mouth_face:

My classic guild is pretty good, people will jump on alts to do a dungeon or just nuke it for you on their 60. I’m like an entry level member and I’ve been helped quite a bit with no strings attached.

In retail things are a bit different. I’ve been in a few and getting a raid spot was pretty difficult, and you really don’t need a guild to do anything else in retail, hence why I’m not in one currently. Probably gonna make a bank guild just for my brother and I.

I couldn’t imagine enjoying classic without a real actual guild. Can’t say the same for retail. It is what it is, there are fewer things you actually need help with so you end up feeling like a dead weight if you do ask for help, in my experience.

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As the only member, yes.

I mean its human nature to gravitate towards people with either similar interests or whom you simply get along with.

That’s why you teach them 4head. You don’t need a guild at that point, recruit less so you don’t have such problems. You’re expected to help people gear out, it makes the guild stronger. What do you think this is? Some kind of plantation where new recruits farm mats for you, for your flasks and get nothing in return?

Clique guilds suck, and ruin the game. The guild I had in classic was far superior to the ones I got through in retail. Some were really nice people, unfortunate but it got really annoying that I put 100s of mats out but can’t get help for a key or enough for a one 15 a week yet I am a mythic raider. That’s bizarre.

If you can’t pug yourself to mythic raiding then I don’t want you in my guild anyway.

The hell would I ever want to apply to your s*** guild anyway, why would anyone? You expect members to pug? Who the f*** would want to join? It’s fine, I’ll pug, you can pass the sausage in your little group but don’t call it a guild.

We don’t want you anyway, females only no guys allowed.

Simmer down, folks.

Also on topic, aren’t most guilds kinda clique-y? That just sort of happens when you group large numbers of people together. Like-minded folks tend to gravitate to each other.

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Yes, that’s fine but it shouldn’t be at the expense of other members, if you have recruits who need help, you should help them and vice versa. Otherwise it turns into a caste system where the officers get all the goods and the members get the igg and get nothing.

Having a clique is usually a death sentence, it annoys people more than you think.

The last guild I actually enjoyed being in, where I finally felt comfortable socializing with people and looked forward to hanging out with, I left because my long time friend and the guild leaders didn’t get along and they gave him lots of crap… Me, him, and a few friends left… and then him and those friends went alliance and I don’t ever get to play with them anymore (nor do they do the level of content I like to do). So, I’ve been stuck ever since.

Now most of my toons are spread between 3 different servers and 4 different guilds. I try to find a guild I like but apparently I’m hard to like at first? Idk. I met someone in that guild that left too and me and her still okay together. She’s basically my best friend now. Like my little sister. One of the major reasons I still play. But even then, she said she thought I was a total judgy A-Hole when I first started playing with all of them. Apparently I’m too quiet and reserved and it gives off a bad vibe initially.

I’d love to find a guild that I could have friends to regularly play with. All of the “best” times I’ve ever had in this game boil down to the social experiences at the time. Without them, the games pretty bland.

I find this is why ‘cliques’ happen, in general - it’s hard to be genuine friends with everyone when the roster count begins to number into the 20s and 30s, so naturally people will tend to stick to a circle they’re familiar with - usually the ‘inner circle’ by simple nature of them having been around longer.

The best solution, therefore, is to join or form your own tight-knit guild (such as yours’), keep the numbers reasonable, and keep it to people you enjoy the company of.


Is that, in essence, making another ‘clique’? Yeeeeesss, but these things are unavoidable, people are gonna stick with the people they like - that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, it just means you don’t gel with the guild you’re in! Keep looking, people.