Even though I know I can improve in those areas, I seem to be content with it providing I can come home and escape in WoW.
Does anyone else feel this way? I know it isn’t healthy, I guess some habits are very difficult to break out of.
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There is nothing wrong if you are content with the lifestyle you live. Do what makes you happy, not what everyone thinks will make you happy.
There isnt always a need to constantly be striving for something. Its perfectly fine to be grateful for the life you have and cherish it.
P.S: Youre not mediocre, youre a functional member of society and have just as much value as anyone else.
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You don’t have to have mediocre and play wow.
Moderation is the key with everything, think there’s a loading screen with a saying similar.
WoW is a good hobby, a good escape. Only thing you just have to filter out all the political topics and all the propaganda being pushed
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my life is a complete and total failure. just like me. i coul;d make mtself something but failed.
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A good beer and a nice cigar will brighten your day!
Cigar lounges are a good place to socialize and relax at the end of your work week. A good cigar will run you about 20-30 bucks. Also a nice Belgian beer is good to get you a nice beer buzz.
If your lucky and have a couple weeks vacation I recomend Cancun, Mexico. The ocean is beautiful there. There’s nothing like it.
Then again, I don’t know what your budget is, but that’s what I do to end a work week and vacation.
Hi. Dunno the context of this. Could be trivial, but could not be. I’ll assume the latter just to be safe. Soz if I get heavy.
I’ve done a lot of therapy and group stuff in my life. And something I’ve heard a lot is the concept of not being ready for change, but being ready to be ready for change. And a lot of the time it starts with analogous thoughts to what you have. That something could be different or there’s something you can improve. It’s something common with people who are addicted to substances. They may not want to quit, but there’s a level where they want to want to quit. Not saying you’re addicted to anything but this carries to a lot of different aspects of mental health. It seems like maybe you’re approaching that point. It’s possible you see things you want to change but just don’t have the motivation or want to. Which… is okay. It’s okay to not be ready for change or to want it, but to wan to want it and to see where it can happen. Maybe you just need to frame it differently. Instead of “I need a better job” frame it as "I want this lifestyle and this is how I get it.’ Changing from a have to to a want to can be a wonderful way giving yourself motivation. Like for me, I have a clean room. Not because I want to clean it, but because I want the result of cleaning it. Identify what you’d like to change and what you want, then take the steps necessary to achieve your goals.
The existence you live now is valid. You are not mediocre. You’ve done what you’ve can in any given moment and that’s all that should be asked of anyone.
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If that’s how your life goes, then that’s how it is. Being okay with it is healthy enough.
I would suggest staying aware of current trends, seeing where they go because there’s all kinds of opportunities that can come from that and if you try them out, something will work and that can benefit you when you most need it.
Otherwise, there’s nothing wrong with liking how your life is now.
It won’t stay this way so enjoy it while you can.
i dont enjoy my life,. i knpow is messed it up so bad, i hates myself everyu minute.
What seems broken now may not actually be. Sounds strange but over time we tend to see the bigger picture, how events came to be, what led up to them, etc…
We learn as we go and there’s one helluva learning curve. Some have it harder than others, but everyone has it hard.
No one gets away with anything, ever. Not really but still, we’re hard wired to test those limits.
Tells you a lot about life.
There will come a day when you see the road you’ve traveled has been very odd, winding, annoying, dumb in some spots, brilliant in others and you’ll be both haunted by your past decisions and failings and you’ll have moments of pride in overcoming some extreme hardships.
Either way, in the end none of it may really matter. Just do your best.
That’s all any of us can do. Be well.
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Nothing wrong with contentment. If you have a job that’s keeping you clothed, fed, sheltered, in good health, and with time and money left for some leisure you’re doing just fine.
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but my life wont be that ways forevers. rich peoples have it betters. they no need worries about this stiuff and get whwatevers theyt wants,.
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If you’re talking about people with obscene amounts of money, I disagree.
They don’t get to do whatever they want because they have to watch their money. They do have worries, a lot of them, that someone will come and take all their crap away.
Having stuff, having money may be nice for a bit, maybe more Idk. But I do know we tend to become owned by the things we think we own.
It’s still just stuff though.
It doesn’t make us better people. Doesn’t increase our value as living beings.
It’s just stuff. You realize that when you suddenly have to move fast and realize you can’t do it in just a couple hours.
I find that so annoying.
peoples with monies buy congreess get to writes laws so they can do whatever they do whatevers no need toworries about laws. us p;oor p[eoples have to. i tired of this existance i want riches. i maybe drunk but i know power whens i sees it.s
Why put in effort if it’s not rewarded?
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People happily commit atrocities just to be in a marginally worse position, so no, you’re not bad for liking your place in life. Most are. Unlimited growth is both unsustainable and just not feasible for the typical person.
Yes for some things, no for the rest.
I am pretty sure this is 95% of highschool gamers
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