In need of support

I’ve been with girls who tell me they don’t care if I cheat as long as they don’t know about it. Big red flag to me b/c that just makes me think they tryna cheat too lmao.

It’s way better being single I get to meet way more girls and don’t have to be chained down

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does it make me a bad person to admit that i wanted to do it anyhow because well…shes a model while at the same time acknowledging the fact i shouldnt have done it?

what the hell am i still doing in this conversation anyway i out aged this highschool crap quite a while back. i blame the lesser quality beer im forced to drink. i still never got my hugs for my local to be out of my guinness. wth they never even sold it here until i moved back to the area n told them to start stocking it.

thats…a bit…alrighty then . yay? i guess? lol

:joy: I mean i’m not making it up. I had a girl tell me this legit just a few days ago I could even screenshot our texts.

When I look down I see abs so I aint worry if u dont believe me bruh i be given girls social anxiety irl

People who date married people just want to spend holidays alone.

They need to be in closer proximity to me :face_with_raised_eyebrow: :joy:

I always liked Kipling’s answer to that situation: “Make ‘im take ‘er and keep ‘er, that’s Hell for ‘em both.”

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I would cheat too if my wife typed like this.

Cmon man they’re upset

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Damn, I am certainly sad for you, as I have been in the same or well, similar boat. Was with someone for 9 years, and they just up and left one day. Said nothing, and that was it.

People are cruel, and I’ve been single since that…5 years. Dating these days is a nightmare (as if it always wasn’t) and most people are shallow and self centered.

I hope you feel better, even though it maybe a week or so. It’s rough, after a year or so, you can heal from it, but you can still think about them time to time. Hang in there, and don’t go back to them.

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Eh I would argue humans were always like this. We can just document it WAY more than the past

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This.

If it’s too hard for you to do that do it over a text message even if you’re going to take the chicken way out at least it’s done. But if you want I’ll it is your responsibility to end it.

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True, true.

It’s a little thing called empathy look it up.

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Sorry for your hardships, but you probably just opened the gates on enough creep DMs to start your own Cringe page.

Best of luck to you.

Very sorry for what you’re going through and hope you get some genuine, honest support coming your way.

However, in the interest of being pragmatic, I would advise against being this specific in your description of what’s going on, especially given the fact that you’ve also just publicly posted your BattleTag and Discord info.

It feels like you may have just opened yourself up to attention from… ah… “thirsty” people.

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Sometimes I get the feeling people just want to play in the presence of females.

Not everyone is a ladies man.

How bad is the beer? Don’t tell me you sunk way low and went home with a case of Natty Ice.

Sounds like some /r/niceguys stuff.