If someone in your guild has social anxiety how do you treat them? Are you ok with them not joining in vc? Or maybe joining and just not talking?
I think I’d like to join a guild on my evoker because it must be nice to have familiar people to do m+ with, but idk. My social anxiety is a major roadblock, I feel. In guilds I’ve joined in the past they allow me to just listen in but it’s pretty awkward.
I have anxiety , when i was in a guild raiding i just didnt say anything… anxiety usually gets better once you get more comfortable with people you are dealing with, its the process of exposure
this is how gorg posts. he posts these posts where he thinks his posts are applying to everyone because “this how he got over it.” while newsgflash thats not how world works.
likes his “i got over my fear of heights by going on a roller coaster so you can too” post awhile back. like SERIOUSLY?!
No, you failed to make a good analogy because you opted for a knee-jerk response without understanding what you were talking about. Give up now because it just looks worse as you keep digging that hole.
seriously he is like convinced he’s right and everyone else is wrong. i see you typing angryily there gorg. your just upset im throwing out truth bombs.
I have a friend with severe social anxiety… took him a long time to get comfortable with my friends group. He’d at times would want to back out of raids if we needed to pug someone because we were too few and he would become a mute with there was and he’d not last long in that raid. It is tough, but he found another group of people to play with mostly and we’ll do M+'s from time to time with him. Patience is the key.
What about typing? I have social anxiety. I listen in Discord, but I usually just type responses in chat, at least until I have raided with a group a long time and get to know them enough to get comfortable to talk.
I don’t think just listening is awkward, for an excuse you can even just say you don’t have a microphone.
I usually just don’t do stuff with people outside of raid hours and keep to myself.
That’s objectively false. I mean I’m pretty sure I can get to my goal of KSM alone which I did last season. Group finder is just like playing with NPCs
Ig the only predicament I put myself in is maybe wanting a guild? Is it so bad to want to work on my social anxiety and join a guild? lmao
Yeah, in my past guilds I would type to communicate but I did feel very left out when in vc chat with them. Also, its a bit difficult to respond when they need me to do something in the middle of combat.