I have done 4 Honeybee Harvester events, was there the whole time, everything finished, other people getting lots of loot, and nothing for me to click on. No big honey thing at all shows up. Please help. Playing on Earthen ring server.
several things could be happening there as your report isn’t super clear on what you have and have not done for the events.
1.) have you actually started the questline to be neutral with honeyback hive? If so, make sure you feed the baby bee the first jelly you got or items won’t drop.
2.) If 1 is complete and still no loot, are you using the same toon in rapid succession?? Due to group finder, Blizzard put a limit on how many you can loot, it resets on the hour. Example: a) you loot your honey at 5:50 pm, it will reset at 6 pm so you can get another in 10 minutes b.) you loot one at 5:10 pm and then that toon is locked out again til 6 pm. I use alts to cycle so I can get the most attempts per hour.
3.) if neither of those are the case and you have NEVER gotten loot from the honey, are you on a max level toon? I believe I have been told that non max levels have a small chance for the pets like Papi, but I have no confirmation of that. However, you cannot get jellies if you are sub120.
4.) If none of the above apply, then I am not sure how I can help but hopefully one of the above suggestions will alleviate your issue.
Yes, max level toon , currently honored with Honeyback Hive. So , from what you said , you can only do one honeyback harvester event per hour? That would probably explain it, a bit, as I did 4 in one hour and only 2 had the big honey thing to loot at the end. So maybe it switched over in between the first and second event that I did:) Thanks!
yes, it seems to be a reset on the hour as opposed to an hour from when you did the event. Glad my suggestions helped you 
To add a bit of info for anyone else that might have the same issue: if you arrive at an event and there is no star on the mini-map at that location, then you are not eligible for loot and will need to wait until the top of the hour for the cool-down reset.