Hey an apology

I’m a little worried that something I said that caused some people offence I honestly didn’t mean to, I do apologize if I did.

Problem is can’t see which post it was that got flagged, so don’t know which one so can’t edit/delete it. But what it was that was said, I do apologize and didn’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings, sometimes its hard to defend your position/argument without upsetting some people.

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Never apologise. In modern day it’s nothing but a sign of weakness that will do nothing but get you more flak.

If I had a kid, I would teach them to NEVER say they’re sorry.

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The problem is that if a post here gets flagged, and I accidentally said something that upset people, I could get silenced for a week or sometimes two weeks, so want to get on top of it and either edit/delete the post that caused offence

If you can’t go a week without coming to the forums you have a problem.

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This is not tumblr.

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This is not a good a very good message to get out to be honest.

It takes a stronger character for someone to admit that they were wrong and apologize for their actions.

Hiding and pretending you were in the right all along when really you were in the wrong is the cowards way out.

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Well someone doesnt like me

I guarantee that trying to appease people will do nothing but get you more flags.

Nobody flags because you did something that hurt them. Nobody.

People flag because they have the power to hurt you.

Letting them know you care is letting them know to flag you harder.

The big secret of life is that nobody is genuinely hurt by anything. If they are, you won’t hear about it, because the people who are hurt know how that feels and thus don’t want to hurt others.

Well, I don’t give a flying turtle which is the stronger character, to be honest. I care which one is going to set my kid up for success, and that’s the latter.

The former sets them up for failure, and to be the stooge of the boss man who is only the boss man because he chose the latter.

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Maybe you are right, I mean worst thing is a suspension for a while, and with valentines on I should probably be spending time in the game anyway

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No should be spending it wth your special person

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Hey that’s not nice :flushed::rage:

Um there is nobody. First time in 15 years, there’s literally nobody, I mean there’s a few people I consider a crush at most, but that’s about it.

Uhmmm i wasn’t say that to you :thinking:

Your hands didnt accidently type offensive words. They had a thought behind them and you are able to proof read your posts before posting it.

If blizzard mods read it first then it dont matter if you apologize. They are without mercy sometimes.

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? lmao you apologize when you did something WRONG, if you do it right there is no need to apologize.

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Sometimes people flag posts for reasons other than what was said.Then sometimes people just follow other people around and flag them for their own reasons,and maybe get friends to join in.I think it was a post about not inviting girls with beta followers to join guild.Really not offensive that I saw.Of course now I will likely get mega-flagged for telling you that,but that’s fine. Hang in there,don’t let it get you down.

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Okay lol well i am off to find some help with some thing and wish you the best i will be with my doggie on v day and it’s a sad day anyways might make a trip to SD visit my mom

Apology = “I did something wrong, please now use ridicule of me to show you are in the right.”

It is frustrating though that I don’t know what I said that upset people, like at this stage I don’t know if it was the thread I made about animal races that annoyed people, or the one where this other lady was upset at some of my comments, that was in the thread about wow being a cesspool i believe, problem is how can we learn if we don’t know which thing we are saying is upsetting people

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Hope you get it figured out :thinking: don’t want to intrude