Hello Spoonigoto
Im a recently returned player and a father. I joined a guild for this xpac that I am quite happy with. There is a wide variety of experience levels that lead to a more casual atmosphere. But, the officer team is knowledgeable and skilled while being dedicated to forming a positive environment. Avg age is probably in the 30s with a ton of working adults that want to game.
We currently are looking for a second tank for our raid group. Schedule is later at 10-12 est Thursday and Saturday. Getting your friend into a dps slot every so often should work out fine too.
If that sounds like it might be a good fit for you, I invite you to check them out. Cheers,