Forced Campaigns

I get the reason for current (although we are smart enough to go to a pick up location) but for folks like my husband who is EXTREMELY new to gaming in general. This becomes confusing and frustrating because he does not know what the story order is or understands that those “pop up” quests are optional. All he understands is: Its in my list, I have to complete it!. Even though I try to walk him through whats what, he gets confused then doesn’t want to play anymore. I am sure there’s a lot of other players that feel the same way when playing for the first time, OR wants to level a new character with its own lore journey (Looking at RP folks out there) including myself.
So here’s my request: Can you please turn off “pop up” campaign quests for legacy expansions? Put these quests back on the City Boards and let us, the players decided which way we want to go, once we’ve spoken to Chromie for time shifts of course.