I experienced abuse from DPS when I first started tanking. Tried to explain to people I was a first time tank, didnt matter. DPS were still abusive and accusatory even when THEY were the issue.
So last night, decided to do some LFR, for echoes, ended up in a partial completion and the raid was on Ilgynoth. Apparently one tank already left. As I’m standing there, this typical mongo warrior walks up to the remaining Druid Tank and says, “Stop sucking druid.” Didnt even call the dude by his name, just druid.
I’m standing there thinking," what the hell did I phase into?"
Then, without a word, the druid drops grp. I then ask the warrior why he did that? His response, “bads shouldnt queue.” Its LFR and you’re a warrior, calling people “bads.”
Another tank finally shows up. Another Blood DK. In 1 minute, 1, we talk about what to do to make sure we are on the same page and knock it out the park.
I tell the raid if they dont want to have to wait hours for grps and wait for tanks, try to be more patient and offer help when you see someone is a new tank. You know the fight? Send a whisper and say, “hey you know the fight? If not I can tell you what to do.”
It takes less time to explain a fight to a new tank than insult them and then wait 15 minutes waiting for another one. I doubt that poor druid is gonna even try again. Maybe quit tanking all together, yeah continuing the shortage of tanks is what we need. Right?
Stop being a horses rear end and talk to people, ask questions and help out. Tanking is Not easy and at times not very satisfying, dont add to the negative aspects of tanking by being a brain dead DPS that has no patience for people trying to take up that burden.