Hey Reyoko!
Would love to have you and your wife join our guild and our discord community. However, I am not sure if the times would work for you. We are looking at raiding later at night 9:30pm to midnight CST. Would that be too late for you both?
Otherwise, I think we are a guild and discord community that would fit you both well. Rusty Ranch is the name of the discord and is pretty active, not just in WoW but also in several other games. We are a 25+ community (we do allow under 25 in if they prove they are mature) with members that have families, etc. We are drama free in both the discord and guild.
We are a small guild right now focused on leveling, excited to raid, and are trying to recruit the right people to help us build toward raiding, etc. Below is the guild recruitment statement. If interested, let me know and I can get you both an invite to the discord and you can have a look around.
Discord is 5LLDude#9079 and BattleTag is MereServant#1451