To each their own, but the way I see it, if you’re not “min/maxing” your character (such as leaving your gear unenchanted, gem slots unfilled, not using potions etc., or picking the worst covenent for your main spec)… This tells us that you don’t care about progressing in M+ or raids, or being a team player (because of your refusal to make it easier on your party by optimizing).
99% of us have jobs, a family, and don’t have time to raid 24/7, but still try to stay competitive, by performing to the best of our ability for the limited time we have playing the game.