I just want to shout out to the Atiesh Server Community. Not only do they have a thriving Discord, but a community website, and deal with player issues in the server as a community (Since Blizz never does anything and only ever uses automated systems to handle issues).
If you want a good server to play on, with friendly players, Atiesh is where to go.
I am an oceanic player and moved my two characters to Atiesh. I met alot of nice and helpful folks while leveling in Outlands. I am really glad I made the right decision to leave toxic Arugal.
We as a community have worked really hard to ensure that players in the server have a good time playing the game. There are obviously some issue areas, but for the most part, all the guilds know their reputation is key, and because of that, ensure their members know the same. Thats trickled down to most players in the server being just nice and helpful.