But we kinda don’t have a choice. hello. My name is Larilostra. I main a tank, and I would like to share an experience with you.
Be me. In a M+. Did a dungeon I never did before, but I looked up the quick guide. I see heals is struggling and DPS is just taking damage from any source they can find. Ok. I pull packs as I normally do.
DPS says pull big.
I pull big…
We all die.
DPS that asked me to pull big says maybe not so big… How do i know the specific bigness you require?
Fast forward through random folks dying here and there. We at 9 deaths now. So I slow it down a bit… Out of the corner of my eye I see a Demon Hunter running behind me (I am facing mobs away from team). he comes back with 3 more people chasing him… Okay… I get aggro, but he took a lot of damage as he was pulling. He survived (barely) but someone else dies. Soon, the group dies.
I sigh and use kaioken (pop wings) and finish off the pack.
We are at that Valkyrie boss now . So it is my first time and I messed up. I pulled the two adds at the same time before boss. I killed it solo but that is on me. I take responsibility for that. The guides only focus on bosses. But hear me out. I only did that because I thought we were pulling big. So of course I am gonna pull every add in front of me. Why would I do 1 at a time?
We rez and pull boss. Once again folks die. And no, not on me this time. I know to switch sides. So I stay on one side and solo her down from 2 million.
We get to the boss before Odin… I make myself familiar with the shield mechanic. I use shield. Two folks outside of shield. We wipe. We get it next pull and we are over time.
(Hits FF button) Odin we wipe 4 times. I stuck around till the group fell apart.
My gripe:
Everyone constantly blames tanks for speeding. Sorry to tell ya, but you guys made us like this. I don’t like speeding. It’s not fun for me and it is not comfortable. Call me a scrub tank or whatever. I like pulling manageable packs and going a decent pace.
But it never fails that there is always someone demanding I pull more or go faster. And some of yall gonna be mad at hearing this, but the first to demand we rush is usually the first one to die.
I can handle myself as a Paladin. And I am not even a good Paladin, so i can imagine how immortal everyone else is. I don’t care how fast or slow we go. I don’t even care if we wipe.
But all this blaming tanks for speeding like we all decided on our own we gotta go fast , and there is no one pulling for us if we don’t speedrun or demanding we pull bigger, is some borderline gaslighting.
You all know why tanks chain pull. Stop acting like tanks are the ONLY issue.

 I’m not trying to be mean, but it just takes time, not much effort.
 I’m not trying to be mean, but it just takes time, not much effort.