I always find it odd that we’re seeing this kind of pushback against Calia Menethil because she’s a bit different than the Forsaken, yes she hasn’t experienced their life in the past twelve or so years since the fall of Lordaeron.
Yet no one ever complains that Turalyon is too different than the Lightforged Draenei, despite being an entirely different race than the majority of the Lightforged.
The Forsaken experience is not the same for each Forsaken. The first ones faced way more hostility than the more recent ones. Forsaken risen in Cata had a home and a faction, they were not universally hated like the ones fresh from the grave after the fall of Lordaeron.
Also what exactly is “forsaken”? OP said she isn’t Forsaken. Are the recently risen undead in Cata, not Forsaken since they may have never been scourge and were just corpses risen by Sylvanas? What about Thomas Zelling? Was he Forsaken? He wasn’t like the original Forsaken who were scourge.
I’m not sure you can really define what a Forsaken is to the point that you can exclude Calia to the point that she isn’t Forsaken. Forsaken literally just the faction of undead. They have humans, elves, and other things. The only common thing is, they are all dead.
Calia Menethil is dead. She isn’t coming back to life. So she’s already checking one of the boxes to being a Forsaken. But what else does she need? She was never a former member of the scourge, but neither were many other Forsaken.
Can someone please clearly define the Forsaken experience that she’s missing? Is it rejection? Calia already faced rejection in Arathi from several of her own people. But even if that’s not enough, rejection seems to be the only common theme of the Forsaken. Because you have humans were scourge, humans who never were scourge, and most recently Thomas Zelling, who isn’t even from the same continent as the rest of them.
I think since Sylvanas was leader, the Forsaken were turned into a hivemind with absolutely zero expression of individual thought. Their entire story was to further her story and thus the Forsaken were always the side characters to her plot. That meant, they were this evil race of zombies who threw blight around.
Now in the most current lore, we’re seeing that isn’t the case, the Forsaken is home to individuals with unique thoughts and feelings, which aren’t always evil. Calia is just another one of those people.