My grandmother, born in 1907, was very progressive for the age she was in. Got a degree at a University, met her husband there, and then got married and had children, all while maintaining a career. And she was very active in helping her local community, right up until she died. I know you think that most women back then were subservient to their men, and were property after marriage, but she most certainly did not hold that view. They were equals in every way, and joined together to raise a very stable and happy family. That is what most people hope to get when they get married nowadays, or at least that should be the goal.
The girls of today, I pity them, growing up in this age, their role models are toxic feminists who encourage them they donât need men to succeed or to have children. Well I had my awesome grandmother as my role model. She taught me you can be a feminine woman, let yourself be attractive to other people, and be gracious and kind and yes, married happily to a man and raise children together as a team and still have that career if you so chose, or be a stay at home mom, and live a fulfilled life.
I just feel this needed to be said. Now lets get back to the /whistle discussion. A woman may get annoyed getting stared at or catcalled, but I guarantee you will miss it when they no longer do it. Nothing wrong with signalling to someone you find them attractive. Who knows, you may end up dating that someone! As good a pick up line as any lol.
Edit: Ok ok, for those who disagree with the last line of my post, maybe a catcall would not likely increase my personal choice to date that someone. I called a man out on that behavior once while at a job and shut him right the heck up. You can choose, as a woman, to let it get to you or ignore the few crass men you encounter. Like a duck, let the foul water slide off your back. Internalize the comments and catcalls and grow angry, or brush it aside and get on with your life. People, male or female, can act rude and dehumanizing towards you, indeed, but that is a topic for another post. But as for me, speaking as an older woman at an age most of us gals no longer turn heads, at least fewer in number, I can look fondly back on the days when they were many. But thatâs just me. My two centsâŠ