Heya! I really think we’d be a great fit for you. We are a “life first” guild, and understand that life comes in the way of the game, but we still progress, raid and get things done. Many of us are late 30s-40s and grew up playing the game since the beginning or close to it. Please check out our guild post! I really think you may be a good fit. We only raid one day a week (and still progress) and start at 6PM PST, so 9PM EST as you mentioned is your availability.
Here’s our post, please reach out on Discord if you’d like to chat.