Hey guys, figured with the coming of the new threads it was a good time to make up a new post addressing what we can do as a community to address an issue we all have in the game. We spend a lot of time here on the forums addressing how others behave-- so let’s address ourselves.
disclaimer: nobody is perfect-- everyone is prone to getting angry. The key is to address it and not let it fester.
- First, try not to play when you’re already in a sour mood.
This one is a hard one to keep up with, so as such it’s just a recommendation. Playing while tense/upset can lead you to see things that normally don’t bother you in a harsher light, i.e. a teammate overextending or someone refusing to swap. Going in angry is a good way to end up angry and frustrated with the game overall.
- Next, try to spend more time complimenting your team than criticizing.
If you view your team in a positive light, you’re less likely to be angry with them. That’s a pretty obvious piece of advice, right? By paying attention to what someone is doing right, it enables you to be more sound and encourages the people you’re playing with. Thanking a Zarya for those great bubbles, or Tracer for that strong pick will make you more positive of a person, and enable your team to feel more positive as well. On top of this, if you’re in a good mood, advice such as ‘you’re overextending’ is less likely to come off gripey and earn an attempt at playing better!
- Apologize.
That’s right. By owning up to your mistakes, you create a better team atmosphere. Someone who is always criticizing others but not themselves will tilt the team faster than ‘triple sniper meta.’ Additionally, it betters you as a player because the thought becomes ‘I shouldn’t have done (x)’ instead of ‘why wasn’t my team doing (x)’. (Thus, keeping your view on your team positive)
- Give chances.
One tricks. Snipers. Niche heroes. Anything that goes off meta makes people nervous. Whether you picked the hero or a teammate did, reaffirm that it’s ‘worth a shot.’ A good way to be firm in a situation without tilting the player or your team is to say, ‘So long as you switch if it’s not working out, I’ve got your back.’ Don’t assume the worse, don’t look at winrate to bully them. By being open, you may just find that a hero is a lot more viable than you thought!
- Last, but not least: Report offenders appropriately.
Is someone being toxic in voice chat? A teammate jumping off the map? If it falls within the parameters of the reporting system, it should be reported. Don’t tell the offender that you reported them, don’t encourage the enemy team to report. It’s better in this situation to put the report in and encourage anyone you’re teamed with to do the same, away from where the offender will know. Don’t turn it into a hostage situation with reporting.
As always, good luck with your games. If you have any tips of your own, feel free to share them!