Recent issues with backfilling in QP

I know this has been brought up before, but it is extremely frustrating to wait in a long queue and backfill a “defeat” game. My issues with backfilling haven’t really surfaced much again until recently where it seems like almost every other game somedays is a backfill for 1 minute left lost causes. So not only is half the waiting time I have to play completely wasted, but also my endorsement rank and/or win loss record suffers. Or I overall just have a s*** game and it kills my desire to play anymore. Imma nip this in the bud too before someone responds saying something along the lines of I would want someone to backfill a leaver on my game. No, I don’t. I’d rather just play 4 v 5 or have the game just end and requeue because I don’t want anyone thrown into the middle of an already running game due to how much I hate it myself. I don’t mind backfilling near the beginning of a game but if its because a team is getting absolutely steamrolled and have already lost 2/3 points or whatever, don’t drag me into it too!

Is there not any way to stop the backfill from happening or at least give me the option of joining by also telling me the remaining time left of the game so I can decide yes or no instead of constantly being penalized? I want to play MY OWN F****** game somedays and not SOMEONE ELSE’S game everyone in it has already given up on.

I have thought of this quite a bit and honestly Blizzard just needs to make a way to opt out of backfilling. The little extra exp isn’t worth waiting in que for 3-5 minutes to join a match with 10 seconds left. I have been backfilled into a game. Lost in 10 seconds and placed into priority que just to backfill again. But yeah a little extra exp is the way to go… Get it together Blizzard. This isnt a hard concept and its been suggested time and time again.