i could try to explain why you’re wrong but it’s too complicated and i’m lazy. so i’ll recommend you play the mass effect trilogy instead and pay attention to what EDI and legion say in ME3.
i used to think like you as well. “they are just machines! they are tools, not unlike a computer or a cellphone. we created them to serve us. they don’t have feelings. they are not people.”
and then mass effect made me realize that the human brain is just an organic machine, and the “feelings” that make us people are just chemical reactions. we were programmed by nature, and they were programmed by us. their software is perfectly capable of replicating emotions caused by chemicals, they can feel.