This is actually very likely either a performance issue with your system or a connection latency issue. Sometimes slower systems especially those with regular hard disk drives (not solid state drives) load elements very slowly. Connection issues can cause symptoms like this as well.
Here are tips to check out to possibly improve things on your end:
Unfortunately all disconnections and game crashes counts as leaving the match and will be penalized appropriately. The game server has no way to discern a legitimate disconnection or game crash from one that is forcefully caused by a dishonest player to bypass leaver penalties. You can learn about this policy here: