Honestly with ships, the best thing to do is just to find something that speaks to you, find content creators that produce good and healthy content and just stick to them.
There are always people who are dedicated to making every ship like this; no unnecessary drama, no gross stuff, just a nice relationship between characters without the awful tropey soap opera stuff. I know some shippers live for the angst and drama, but I don’t get it. I can understand some minor conflicts, angst and drama if they’re resolved normally, but I will never understand people who “ship” characters and make art where the two are… dunno, dying, breaking up, cheating on each other, arguing all the time, abuse each other or whatever these people think is edgy and dramatic.
How is that even shipping? If I ship characters, I want to see them happy and in love. I don’t want to read the unnecessary love triangles and cheating fics, or fics with stupid dramatic deaths. Miss me with that.